Blame sets in motion a self-feeding cycle of excuses for failing. Part of the power of taking responsibility for your actions is that you silence the negative voice in your head.
When you spend your thinking time on success and goal accomplishment, instead of on making excuses, you free up the emotional space inhabited by negativity.
Worry is another aspect of not taking responsibility. Sometimes I think we are rather sadistic species when we’d rather spend more time worrying than visualizing success.
The strength behind taking responsibility is you remove the power from others or conditions to make you fail. You own the power to find the solution, to make the due date, to believe in your mission and succeed. When you take responsibility, others can’t take that away from you.
According to a recent survey, a record number of young people are starting their own business. However, the survey also reported that more than 60 percent of the surveyed women admitted that fear of failure would stop them trying to start their own business, compared with just over 50 per cent of men.
Take Away
Write down one thing you blame for your current situation. Next, determine how you can take responsibility and remove that roadblock.
Eva Gregory is a master coach, speaker, author and founder of Leading Edge Coaching & Training, where she helps spiritual entrepreneurs integrate Inner Guidance with proven practical business strategies for growing a list of loyal followers who become raving fans, so that they quickly and consistently attract more of their ideal clients, without compromising their Spirit and values. Join her Successful Spiritual Entrepreneur Facebook community here where you’ll receive plenty of tools, resources and trainings on how to grow a successful enlightened business that lights up your Soul!